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Rosemary Guchone's avatar

Michelle, it was so good of you yo say the daughter's name before the parents left. I can't tell you how much that means to a bereaved parent. Many people are too afraid to say the name for fear it will activate something in the parent that they can't deal with. I am sure the mom appreciated it. I know I do, on behalf of that mom. And yes, in five years that mom has explained the situation a million times. It hardly seems right. I'm glad I read this today. It's good to know you are in my world.

Much love,

Rosemary ❤️

Michelle Francois-Walsh's avatar

Rosemary, thank you so much for validating what I could NOT not do. Thank you! I am so grateful we are doing this life together. BIGGEST love to you mama.

Nancy E. Holroyd, RN's avatar

I love the fact you used the name of the daughter that slipped past the gossamer veil that separates the living and the dead. It means so much to families who have lost a member, son/daughter or sibling.

Michelle Francois-Walsh's avatar

ahhh - big exhale on my end. Thank you for your this. The gossamer veil - wow. say their name.

Susan Moore's avatar

George and the family are SO lucky to have you in their home. 💜

Their daughter remains a vibrant presence in their home, and you validated that. 😘

I know you will have an amazing time in Ireland. We were there about eight years ago and enjoyed every second. SO much to see and do!!! (When traveling, I always tell myself that the people I meet will never know that I am wearing the same outfit that I've worn for several days... 😂

Michelle Francois-Walsh's avatar

um - so that's the most solid advice EVER. Thank you for your blessing of presence and truth my friend.

Wendy's avatar

You're so kind. If I had animal companions still, I'd have you come & stay with them if need be. You're going to Ireland! Ack! I want to hear all about it! One of my dream places to visit. xxx

Michelle Francois-Walsh's avatar

this animal gig has been so lifegiving my friend. I borrow, love and return to sender. I am digging it. After Ireland, I am dogsitting in the UK! What? Can't wait.

Wendy's avatar

That’s amazing. Where in Ireland are you going? Text me!